Remember this saying? Well, we are needed.
Not just friends, family members may also be able to lend a hand, when it comes to depression. Depression is a serious illness that should not be ignored or underestimated. Please do take it seriously and be aware that it can happen to anyone. So what COULD we do when someone we know goes through depression?
First of all, as much as we may feel urged to, we should not ask why. Basically, it is never that simple! We may find it helpful on the other hand to learn more about depression to be better equipped for the situation. We may help that person to get a check up if we suspect they are depressed, we may even need to book an appointment for him/her (if we are that close, of course).
We should not to judge or belittle their pain, even if it seems trivial to us, it is definitely not for them. Instead of guessing how depression feels, check out this article, to get an idea. It lists how fifty humans of depression describe it: http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/danny-baker/depression_b_5267263.html
It might be hard at times to help, because they do their best to alienate themselves. To overcome any awkwardness that may arise, we need to remind ourselves that it is not WE that they are pushing away. It is their disconnection from the whole world that drives them further away. We could always try to minimize this gap.
We could encourage them to eat well, sleep enough, and exercise often even if it is the least of their worries.
Throughout the process, we need to be careful about warning signs of worsening conditions, such as thoughts on suicide.
We discussed this in detail in one of our earlier blogs, in the link below, so please keep it in mind: https://humansofdepression.wordpress.com/2015/02/16/suicide-ideation/
The most important thing you can do for anyone suffering from depression is to be there, which may be all they need from you!
While doing our best to help, we should not neglect ourselves. We often get carried away in other people’s pains especially if they are important to us. We need to be careful. While it is noble of us to be supportive, it will not be helpful to anyone if we lose track of our own lives. So it is essential to constantly remind ourselves to spare time for US. It is also important to not feel guilty about someone else’s depression, which is a trap caregivers often fall in.
You can help, so do your best!
Today’s blog marks the end of our detailed uptake of the different aspects of depression. We started with defining it, then we learned about its causes, which was followed by an introduction of all the signs and symptoms that happen because of it. We also delved into associations of depression such as complications, most dangerous of which being suicide. We ended with an exploration of management, which included prevention, treatment, self-help, and helping others.
The last part of our campaign, which will take part over the next 4 weeks, will be about depression in special situations. It will also include stories which may be relevant to many. So stay tuned, its going to get personal!
~ Faten B., Humans of Depression Representative
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